Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don’t count. What does count is you getting her back.

You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.

Sneakily get her to return your call
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.

By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.

Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.

I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.

Memories are there to be used
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.

Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. Her mind will start to think you when she thinks about or hears that song because it was on in the background of your phone conversation. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.

Make her a bit jealous & curious
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

As long as you aren’t out on a one to one date, which will probably enrage her, you will raise a slight feeling of jealousy in her. She won’t be expecting you out & about having fun so soon. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. Of course you don’t want to be using them just willy nilly.

What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.

If you want to discover a step by step system that will take you by the hand while you try to win her back, then check out my website…

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I know right now you are probably in total meltdown. Being dumped all of a sudden is a hard pill to swallow. You may well still love them and want to get your ex back.

Many people will accept being dumped and try to make the best of it. If your relationship was more than a few months then chances are there was love there, so why should you accept being dumped? It’s your choice, and yours alone to try and get your ex back. Here are a handful of tips to help decide.

1 – It’s over but does it mean it’s really over?

Look at it this way, it’s over temporarily. If the relationship was good, i.e. no violence or abuse then there’s no reason not to try again. All too often people just accept things. You don’t have to. To try to get your ex back is something you have every right to do. If you loved each other once you can love each other again.

2 – What should I do now?

Well, I would give yourself a bit of time to get yourself together, get over the shock of being single. Being emotionally volatile could easily ruin you whole chance of getting back together. Your ex will realise that you are mature enough to handle the break up. They will probably expect some pestering and begging but you not doing so puts you in a better position when you do start your plan to win them back.

3 – Do I have a game plan?

You got two choices here. You can go it alone and try to get back together, or you can follow the path of someone else who has been there and done it. OK, so you are maybe thing how do you take a leaf out of someone else’s book? There are a lot of places on the web with nuggets of information that you can use to your advantage.

4 – Where do I come by such a plan?

All the information you need is available for free, somewhere on the internet. You can choose to search and collect and decide what’s useful and what’s not. Imagine how long that will take you? However, you could take the easy path and arm yourself with a proven step by step system that will guide you every step of the way.

Given this choice, I would (and did) go for the quickest solution. Quickest being the key word here. Right now your ex could be deciding that they need to move on to a new phase in their lives. This is where you must get back in the picture and make yourself the next phase in their lives. If your desire is to get your ex back then you have to move before they find their next partner.

If you need to learn how to get your ex back using a step by step system, check out this website…

MakeupNotBreakup.com

… Getting your ex back should be your choice, not left to fate.