You are finally happy with your new relationship. The only problem is that you have no idea how to confess to your friends that you are gay. We are all different and we should learn to tolerate each other. You don’t want things to change. To be totally happy you need to be honest with them and with yourself. You have no reason to hide your gay relationship!

Ask all your friends to meet you in the city. Tell them that you are gay and there will be no more secrets in your life. It’s a lot easier to tell them all at once than to have the same discussion with each of them. They will be surprised at first. Probably they will have a lot of questions for you. Take your time and answer to them. Now it’s the time to be completely honest.

The news might come as a shock for some of them. After you tell them that you are gay you should give them some time to assimilate the information. Therefore it’s better to let them think about it for a few days. Only your real friends will stick around. This will be like a real friendship test. It’s important to stay calm and positive. Your new life as an out gay man is about to start!

Another important thing is to take your time. Don’t put yourself a deadline for coming out of the closet. Try to relax as much as possible. It will not be an easy thing to do. Do it whenever you’re ready. Try not to stress too much about it.

The next step will be to introduce your life partner to your friends. If they accepted you they will accept him also. Your friends can become his friends too. Make sure you let your friends know that you are the same person. Tell them that nothing will change.

Meet your friends as often as you used before. Let them know that you are still the same friend. They might need some time to see that nothing changed.

You are the same as the rest of your friends. Keep in mind that nobody is better than you. We are all people with good and bad things. The important thing is to learn to be better every day. There are no more secrets. You are free to love and be loved. The decision is in your hands!

Telling your friends that you have a gay relationship might be difficult. Remember that you do this for your happiness. It’s impossible to be happy when you have something to hide.  Only this way you will be able to enjoy life.